Chapter 8: 2009 – Summary and Analysis

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Summary

The year opens with Sedaris in Paris noting the story of a child named Adolf Hitler Campbell and atheist bus ads in London. He falls ill, has a fever dream about leg amputations, and later celebrates the anniversary of Tyler’s arrival with a joke about buying all his belongings. He suffers a kidney stone in a New York Holiday Inn and is driven to the hospital by a kind desk clerk. A lipoma scare in Paris turns out benign. He meets Phyllis Diller for lunch in Los Angeles, endures a hostile photographer in Capri, and observes a nurse’s aide’s hopeful phone call on a Saint Louis train. He collects stories of rudeness, reflects on applauding soldiers, and recounts family phone calls with his father. The year ends with carolers outside his London flat and the thwarted Christmas Day plane bomb plot.

Key Events (in Chronological Order)

January 15 – Sedaris reads about ShopRite refusing to put “Hitler” on a birthday cake for three-year-old Adolf Hitler Campbell, and recalls hearing “Adolf Hitler” paged at Denver airport.
January 19 – Notices atheist bus ads across the UK: “There is probably no God,” and contrasts them with Italian posters.
January 25 – Has a high fever and a dream about solving which legs to amputate, which feels profound until he wakes.
February 2 – Celebrates Tyler’s one-year anniversary with Hugh, Pam, and Tyler at Whole Foods; teases Tyler that his mother sold everything.
February 4 – Lisa reads a student poem to Dad; Dad says she can make a difference, then tells her not to blow it.
February 7 – Finishes season 3 of The Wire; notes every character litters, which turns him against Omar.
March 14 – A New Yorker fact checker makes him change “five-pound box of strawberries” to four, and “gross” of condoms to “a mess.”
March 30 – Discovers a lump on his side; Docteur Medioni diagnoses a benign lipoma and tells him “Why don’t trees reach the sky?”
April 2 – In Pittsburgh, misidentifies Conner as gay based on his use of “we” in renovation talk; debates with Felicity.
April 3 – Suffers a kidney stone at a Holiday Inn; the desk clerk drives him to the hospital in her filthy car.
April 23 – In St. Louis, takes light rail, overhears a nurse’s aide on the phone excited about a job paying $4/hour; she says her boyfriend is “big in every way.”
April 30 – Lunch with Phyllis Diller, who brings her own vinegar and tells him he is a “stand-up only you don’t know it.”
May 13 – Interview with French journalist who says Penélope Cruz has “eyes of a donkey”; Sedaris explains the deer/donkey difference.
May 28 – Looks at family photos with Hugh and his mother Joan; feels sad about aging.
June 15 – Driver from Capitola tells about a cousin whose arms were chewed off by pigs, and a trans cousin with fat-injected butt.
July 6 – In Capri, confronts an aggressive photographer who calls everything fake; Sedaris writes “Asshole” in his notebook and stands up for himself.
August 12 – Watches health-care town halls where protesters equate Obama with Nazism; notes how badly they are dressed.
August 13 – Pam’s childhood orthodontist pulled his own children’s teeth after his wife left; Sedaris takes Tyler swimming and grocery shopping.
September 11 – Tours the home of a deceased Icelandic writer, notes the crocheted turtle and separate bedrooms; Hugh asks if a tour of Sedaris’s house would be better.
October 2 – In Buffalo, collects rudeness story of a woman spitting chewed chicken salad into a server’s hand.
October 13 – On a plane, observes a soldier being thanked; reflects on the command to applaud Marines.
October 17 – Joke about Epstein Nails and Jesus’ crucifixion.
October 31 – Hears a hotel clerk say holding doors for women is never wasted because a pretty woman might see.
November 16 – Witnesses a cyclist/driver fight in London; notes the Middle Eastern driver attacks the man’s manhood rather than his nationality.
December 3 – Agent Michael Congdon’s father Don dies at 91; Sedaris is not sad, calls Don “the last of the New York gentlemen.”
December 21 – Hears carolers outside; Hugh makes him close the shutters to avoid them.
December 25 – Helps a lost family with a map; a bearded woman (“Spirit of Christmas”) and later an anti-spirit threatens to punch them.
December 28 – Reports Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab’s attempted bombing; notes Amy was not allowed anything on her lap. Ends with neighbor’s remark: “When a friend succeeds, a little part of us dies.”

Character Development

David Sedaris continues to sharpen his observational voice. This year shows him more willing to stand his ground—against a pushy photographer, in debates about Conner’s sexuality, and in refusing to applaud soldiers on command. His hypochondria and vulnerability (lipoma, kidney stone, fever) are balanced by moments of genuine kindness (helping lost tourists) and playful cruelty (teasing Tyler). His relationship with Hugh is a grounding force: Hugh scolds his mother’s cheese-cutting, closes the shutters to carolers, and calls Sedaris out when he goes too far with Tyler. Pam remains a long-suffering friend; twenty-five years of friendship is “sometimes a terribly long time.” Dad appears as both supportive and stubborn, asking for church donations and promising a wrinkle-free jacket. Phyllis Diller is a highlight—vividly herself, still sharp, and she recognizes a kindred performer in Sedaris.

Themes, Symbols, or Motifs

Mortality and Health – The year is bookended by sickness and death: Sedaris’s kidney stone, lipoma, the death of Don Congdon, and the near-death of a Miss World Brazil runner-up. His dream about leg amputation comments on how we avoid imagining our own vulnerability.
Kindness and Cruelty – Sedaris collects stories of shocking rudeness (spitting food into a hand) but also witnesses quiet kindness (the Holiday Inn desk clerk, the bearded woman with the map). The contrast between the “Spirit of Christmas” and the “Anti–Spirit of Christmas” captures the duality.
Performance and Authenticity – The photographer insists everything is fake; Sedaris’s own notebook writings become a performance of defiance. Phyllis Diller’s cigarette holder was a prop; Sedaris is told he is a “stand-up” without knowing it. The applause-for-soldiers moment forces people to vote with their hands.
Class and Observation – The nurse’s aide earning $4/hour, the country-club rudeness, and the hotel clerk’s strategic courtesy all point to class dynamics. Sedaris is both a participant and a detached observer, often catching himself.

Why This Chapter Matters

Chapter 8 marks a rich year of travel, medical scares, and deepening self-awareness. The entries are more varied than previous years, balancing domestic life with public encounters. The meeting with Phyllis Diller is a career milestone, and his confrontation with the Capri photographer shows a new assertiveness. The chapter also captures the cultural mood of 2009—Obama’s first year, the health-care debate, the “underwear bomber”—through Sedaris’s personal lens. It serves as a bridge from his earlier, more anecdotal diaries to the sharper, more political voice of later years.

Study Questions and Answers

1. How does Sedaris use humor to address serious topics like illness or terrorism? He undercuts gravity with absurd detail. When he has a kidney stone, the story ends with the desk clerk’s car being “filthy.” The Christmas Day bomb attempt becomes a punchline about not allowing books on laps. Humor lets him approach tragedy without sentimentality, making the reader think while laughing.

2. What does Sedaris’s interaction with the Capri photographer reveal about his character? It shows he is learning to assert himself. Normally conflict-averse, he openly writes “Asshole” in his notebook and refuses to compromise. He stands up for his own reality against someone who claims “everything is fake.” This is a rare moment of outright hostility that feels liberating to him.

3. How does the theme of “performance” appear in this chapter? Multiple characters perform identity: Phyllis Diller performed a smoking routine, the photographer performed as an “artist,” the desk clerk performs chivalry, and Sedaris himself performs a public persona. Even the soldier’s uniform makes him a symbol others perform gratitude toward. Sedaris questions when performance becomes inauthentic.