Fan Mail: Chapter 35 Summary, Themes, and Key Moments

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Summary

The chapter opens in September 1963, with the narrator reflecting on a summer that proved pivotal for the four Bettys and for the world at large. The narrative quickly catalogs major global events: the signing of the first Nuclear Test Ban Treaty by the United States, United Kingdom, and Soviet Union; Lee Harvey Oswald's arrest in New Orleans after a scuffle while distributing Fair Play for Cuba Committee flyers; Vietnamese President Ngô Đình Diệm's declaration of martial law and the subsequent raid on Buddhist pagodas that arrested fourteen hundred monks; the suicide of Washington Post publisher Philip Graham, leaving his wife Katharine a widow and the first female publisher of a major newspaper; and the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom on August 28, where at least 250,000 people gathered to hear Martin Luther King Jr. speak.

Viv and her family watch King's speech live on television. Viv is deeply moved by the speech, finding it both profound and commonsensical—if America is the land of the free, freedom should extend to everyone. When the cameras pan the crowd, Viv spots Earlene standing near the stage, just thirty feet away. She squeals with excitement, pointing at the screen and celebrating Earlene's presence at a historic moment.

Later that day, Bitsy drives to the post office to mail a condolence letter to Katharine Graham, then heads to American University to register for classes. The fall admission deadline had passed, but Alice Brennan's phone call to a former colleague secured a spot for Bitsy.

The next day, Margaret stops at Mayer's Drugstore and buys six copies of the latest issue of A Woman's Place—two for herself, one for each of the Bettys, and one for Helen and Edwin Babcock, who had insisted on contributing. Helen is thrilled when she sees Margaret's column on page 46, opposite a recipe for deviled lettuce. She praises Margaret and reminds her that starting is the hardest part, predicting that the piece will start a conversation and lead to big things.

Two weeks later, Helen's prediction seems to be coming true. Margaret is amazed by the number of neighborhood women who tell her they've read her essay and plan to read The Feminine Mystique because of it. Helen reports an uptick in orders for the book. Iris Rasmussen and Dorothy Fisher, Margaret's old friends from coffee klatch, knock on her door with a copy of the magazine and ask for her autograph—an experience Margaret finds both embarrassing and flattering.

Not everyone is pleased. Barb Fredericks deliberately snubs Margaret in the grocery store, steering her cart past without acknowledgment. Two women at the school drop-off, the same ones who had gossiped about her at the pool, criticize her to her face, calling the book dangerous and a threat to the American way of life. Margaret is flustered by the vehemence and personal nature of the criticism, wondering why people would go out of their way to be nasty over a differing opinion. She doubts they've even read the book, and she reflects on the importance of free speech and differing opinions as part of the American way of life.

On the whole, however, the positive feedback outweighs the negative. That very morning, the mailman delivers a large manila envelope too big for the mailbox. Inside, Margaret finds twenty-one smaller envelopes addressed to her in care of A Woman's Place, along with a note from Carla Hennessy, a mailroom worker. Carla explains that she noticed the letters coming in and, knowing Margaret no longer worked at the magazine, decided to forward them herself, despite her supervisor's instruction to mark them return to sender. Carla shares her own story: she's worked in the mailroom for eight years, never missed a day, but has only received one raise and no promotion, while men who start there get promoted or leave for better jobs. She admires Margaret's column and hopes the book is worth reading, noting there's a long waitlist at the library.

Margaret reads the letters. Three are negative, one calling her a communist. But eighteen are positive, and five writers say they are forming Betty Friedan book clubs of their own. Those five letters fill Margaret with a tingle-all-over anticipation, like a child making a wish before blowing out candles. She remembers Charlotte's words: you never know what will happen.

Margaret has sent letters and clippings to editors at two dozen magazines without receiving any response, but she feels certain something good is going to happen—perhaps a real writing job, an opportunity to write truth instead of fluff. She doesn't share this hope with the Bettys, because feeling certain isn't the same as being certain. Besides, today is about Charlotte, who has called to announce another field trip, telling them to be ready at ten thirty.

Key Events

The chapter recaps major world events of August 1963, including the Nuclear Test Ban Treaty, Oswald's arrest, Diệm's crackdown, Philip Graham's suicide, and the March on Washington.
Viv watches King's speech and spots Earlene in the crowd, celebrating her friend's participation in history.
Bitsy mails a condolence letter to Katharine Graham and registers for classes at American University, thanks to Alice Brennan's intervention.
Margaret buys six copies of A Woman's Place and receives Helen's enthusiastic praise for her column.
Two weeks later, Margaret faces both criticism (from Barb Fredericks and two school mothers) and praise (from neighbors and friends).
Margaret receives twenty-one forwarded letters from Carla Hennessy, a mailroom worker who admires her column.
Eighteen letters are positive, and five readers plan to form Betty Friedan book clubs.
Margaret feels a renewed sense of hope for a writing career but keeps it to herself.
Charlotte calls the Bettys for another field trip.

Character Development

Margaret continues to evolve from a housewife writing