Chapter summaries The River Is Waiting Wally Lamb

Chapter Three: Corby’s Cross-Country Gamble and the Cost of Love

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Summary

Chapter Three, spanning 2006–2013, opens with Corby and Emily maintaining a long-distance relationship between Rhode Island and California. Frequent phone calls and visits keep their bond strong; a New Year’s Eve stay at the Three Rivers Inn brings emotional and physical intimacy. Shortly afterward, Emily suggests slowing down, and a tense phone argument erupts. Corby suspects another man, though Emily insists she only wants clarity on their rules. Frustrated, Corby leaves the Rhode Island School of Design without formally withdrawing and drives his Chevette cross-country to California. He proposes to Emily at her door, and she embraces him without a firm answer.

The couple moves in together after Emily’s housemates vote them out. Corby sells charcoal sketches at street fairs to save for an engagement ring. When Emily becomes pregnant, Corby proposes again with a diamond, and she says yes. However, Betsy, Emily’s mother, is diagnosed with breast cancer. Emily resigns from her new teaching job to return to Connecticut, and they drive east. The trailer hitch fails in Arizona, and Emily miscarries near Nashville. They marry at Stonington Town Hall, both finding jobs: Emily as a third-grade teacher, Corby as a graphic artist at a startup. They postpone another pregnancy, but during a Cape Cod vacation in summer 2014, Emily agrees to try again. An ultrasound reveals twins—and Emily looks scared.

Key Events

  • Corby buys Emily a diamond-chip bracelet as a signal of his commitment.
  • Emily suggests “tapping the brakes” on the relationship, triggering a heated phone fight.
  • Corby abandons RISD and drives to California, proposing at Emily’s door.
  • Emily’s housemates vote them out after Corby moves in.
  • Emily becomes pregnant, they get engaged, but Betsy’s breast cancer diagnosis forces a move east.
  • The cross-country trip is marked by a trailer-hitch failure and Emily’s first-trimester spotting.
  • Emily miscarries just outside Nashville; Corby drives nonstop to Connecticut.
  • The couple marries at Stonington Town Hall with a small gathering.
  • Both find jobs in Connecticut; they postpone pregnancy until summer 2014.
  • An ultrasound reveals Emily is pregnant with twins; she appears frightened.

Character Development

Corby shows dramatic impulsivity throughout this chapter. His decision to drop out of RISD without a formal withdrawal reinforces his pattern of grand, emotional gestures. The argument with his mother about long-distance relationships, and his counselor’s observation about verbal abuse from his father, deepen his backstory: Corby is driven by a need to prove his worth through love. His inability to discuss Emily’s miscarriage and his competitive jealousy (especially over the barista) reveal an underlying insecurity.

Emily evolves from an enthusiastic partner into someone increasingly stressed by student teaching, then by pregnancy and loss. Her request to “slow down” and her guardedness after the miscarriage show a retreat from emotional openness. The final image of her fear at the ultrasound suggests unresolved trauma.

Betsy (Emily’s mother) is humanized: undergoing a mastectomy, she offers Corby a hug, and he reluctantly accepts. Her earlier coldness softens, making her a more complex figure.

Corby’s father remains a negative influence even when absent, as Corby mentally replays his father’s criticisms (verbal abuse, disappointment). This helps explain Corby’s need to “save” his relationship as a counter-narrative.

Corby’s mother offers practical wisdom; her warning about long-distance relationships proves prescient.

Themes, Symbols, or Motifs

  • The Grand Gesture: Corby’s cross-country drive exemplifies the theme of using dramatic action to prove love—a pattern that partly succeeds but also leads to loss.
  • Miscarriage and Trauma: The loss of the first pregnancy haunts the relationship, becoming an unspoken wound that Emily locks away with the ultrasound photo in her underwear drawer.
  • The Bracelet and the Ring: Jewelry functions as a commitment symbol; the diamond chip bracelet is a “preview of coming attractions,” while the engagement ring solidifies the promise, though both are tied to moments of tension.
  • Control vs. Surrender: Emily’s desire to define “the rules” of their relationship clashes with Corby’s possessive certainty. The miscarriage and subsequent pregnancy highlight how little control they actually have.
  • Home and Displacement: The chapter traces a physical journey from California back to Connecticut, paralleling the emotional journey from freedom to obligation.

Why This Chapter Matters

This chapter is a pivot point in the novel. It establishes the foundational crisis of Corby and Emily’s marriage: a relationship built on impulsivity and dramatic rescue rather than steady communication. The cross-country gamble sets the stage for the costs they will later pay—lost education, career compromises, unresolved grief. Emily’s fear at the end foreshadows future struggles with parenthood and identity. The chapter also deepens Corby’s character by exposing his father’s verbal abuse and his own fragile self-worth, making his later actions more comprehensible.

Study Questions and Answers

  1. Why does Corby decide to leave RISD without withdrawing?
    Corby leaves because he believes a dramatic, grand gesture will solidify his relationship with Emily. He feels that RISD is a bad fit—he received poor midterm grades and faced disciplinary action—and he is convinced that Emily is “the one.” His impulsivity reflects a need to prove his commitment and to escape the failure he perceives in himself.

  2. How does the miscarriage affect Corby and Emily differently?
    Emily becomes emotionally guarded, refuses to discuss the loss, and places the ultrasound photo in her underwear drawer as a private relic. Corby tries to comfort her but admits he is “in over [his] head” and later senses that fear, not practicality, drives their decision to postpone another pregnancy. The miscarriage creates an unspoken rift.

  3. What does the ultrasound of twins reveal about Emily’s emotional state at the end of the chapter?
    While Corby laughs with joy, Emily looks scared. Her fear suggests that she is not emotionally ready for the responsibility of two children, especially after the trauma of the first miscarriage and the stress of their return to Connecticut. It hints at unresolved anxiety about motherhood and the stability of their marriage.

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