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Chapter Twenty-Two: Julian – Summary and Analysis

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Summary

Julian is in his office when Ryder informs him that Dahlia has a special request: she wants to match the original moldings and woodwork of the Founder’s house, and she asked if Julian would do the carpentry himself. Julian instantly refuses, angered by the request because he gave up carpentry after his father’s death. Ryder suggests hiring from Detroit, but Dahlia anticipated that and specifically wants Julian. Julian’s internal voice criticizes his fear and avoidance, yet he still rejects the idea.

Later, Julian visits the construction site. Ryder has already found a carpenter named Dan, whom Julian immediately dislikes because Dan is flirting with Dahlia. Julian orders Ryder to fire Dan, but Ryder points out that if Julian doesn’t want Dan around, he must find a replacement – and suggests Julian himself. Julian is unsettled by the suggestion.

While at the site, Julian overhears Dahlia on the phone talking excitedly about a TV show opportunity in San Francisco that would film in January. He assumes she is leaving town after the house is finished, feels a pang of jealousy and heartburn, but rationalizes that this is what he wanted – for her to pursue her dreams away from Lake Wisteria. He leaves abruptly and buries himself in paperwork.

Key Events

  • Ryder relays Dahlia’s request for Julian to do woodworking; Julian refuses.
  • Julian’s internal conflict surfaces: he acknowledges his fear and grief but remains unwilling to act.
  • Julian meets the new carpenter Dan and becomes jealous of his attention toward Dahlia.
  • Julian tries to fire Dan; Ryder counters by suggesting Julian do the work himself.
  • Julian overhears Dahlia’s phone call about a San Francisco TV show starting in January.
  • Julian interprets the call as Dahlia leaving, feels hurt, but tells himself it’s for the best.
  • Julian leaves the site and distracts himself with work.

Character Development

Julian
This chapter deepens Julian’s internal struggle. He recognizes that his refusal to do carpentry stems from unresolved grief over his father’s death and a fear of repeating past mistakes. His jealousy toward Dan – and his earlier jealousy toward Oliver – shows that his feelings for Dahlia are far from buried. Yet he deliberately avoids acting on those feelings, choosing instead to rationalize her departure as necessary. His self-awareness is growing (“You’re the one with all the power here”), but he is still paralyzed by fear.

Dahlia (off-page)
Though not present in dialogue, her actions drive the chapter. She actively pursues her career ambitions – evidenced by the phone call about the show – and continues to push Julian’s boundaries by asking for his carpentry help. She remains focused on her goals, independent of Julian’s avoidance.

Ryder
Acts as a calm, perceptive voice. He sees through Julian’s excuses and plays a key role in pushing Julian toward self-reflection, even if Julian resists.

Themes, Symbols, or Motifs

  • Grief and Avoidance
    Julian’s refusal to do carpentry is directly tied to his father’s death. He masks his pain with anger and busyness, but the chapter shows that avoidance is no longer sustainable.

  • Jealousy as a Mirror
    Julian’s jealousy toward Dan (and earlier Oliver) reveals the depth of his feelings for Dahlia. He tries to control the situation by removing the perceived competition rather than confronting his own emotions.

  • Career vs. Personal Connection
    Dahlia’s career opportunity (the San Francisco show) represents the life Julian thinks he cannot give her. He uses this belief to justify staying distant, even though it causes him pain.

  • The “What-If” Spiral
    Julian’s internal questions (“What if I hadn’t made the choices I did…?”) highlight a motif of regret and fear of vulnerability. He is stuck in a loop of hypotheticals rather than taking action.

Why This Chapter Matters

This chapter is a turning point for Julian’s arc. It forces him to confront the lie he has been telling himself: that he has processed his father’s death. It also plants the seed of a potential active choice – if he replaces Dan as the carpenter, he would have to work closely with Dahlia. Meanwhile, her hinted departure creates urgency. The chapter sets up the central tension: will Julian overcome his fear and step up, or will he let Dahlia slip away again?

Study Questions and Answers

1. Why does Julian initially refuse Dahlia’s carpentry request so angrily?
Julian refuses because he associates carpentry with his father’s death and the guilt he carries from that time. He has deliberately avoided working with wood since then, and Dahlia’s request forces him to face that grief, which he is not ready to do.

2. How does Ryder challenge Julian’s behavior in this chapter?
Ryder calls out Julian’s jealousy by pointing out that the new carpenter is only “unfocused” because he is flirting with Dahlia and that Julian could replace him if he is unhappy. Ryder also suggests Julian himself as the carpenter, forcing Julian to consider whether his refusal is really about skill or about fear.

3. What does Julian’s reaction to Dahlia’s phone call reveal about his true feelings?
Despite telling himself he wants her to leave, Julian feels a sharp emotional pain (heartburn) when he hears about the San Francisco opportunity. His rationalization (“this is for the best”) contradicts his visible distress, revealing that he is still deeply attached to her and afraid of losing her for good.

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