Chapter Sixteen: Nathan – Summary and Analysis
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Summary (Complete and Chronological)
The chapter opens with Nathan's internal reflection as he processes having Anastasia alone in his room. He admits he has been thinking about this moment for weeks, ever since she called him "rich-kid hockey star" and dismissed his sport. His imagination, he realizes, did not do her justice.
Nathan explains his earlier decision to let Summer approach him at the party. He knew Anastasia would be unhappy and saw it as an opportunity to give her a dose of her own medicine after she rightly called him out for jealousy in the past. He retrieved tampons for Summer from the stash under Henry's sink and sent her back downstairs, but Anastasia stormed up far sooner than he anticipated.
What follows is an extended, emotionally charged sexual encounter. Nathan begins gently but Anastasia demands otherwise, wanting intensity. He refuses to treat her with hatred, telling her directly that he could never hate her. The scene shifts through multiple positions, with Nathan focused on her pleasure and repeatedly vocalizing his possessiveness. Anastasia matches his energy with her characteristic bratty commentary, even while overwhelmed by sensation.
Afterward, Nathan leaves to steal toiletries and supplies from Henry's room, accidentally walking in on Henry with Daisy—revealed to be Briar's younger sister. Henry, frustrated, tells Nathan that if he leaves Anastasia alone again, he will take her.
Returning with shampoo, conditioner, socks, and a hair tie, Nathan carries Anastasia into the shower where he methodically washes her hair and body despite her protests that she can manage alone. He dresses her in a Titans T-shirt, and she falls asleep draped over his chest. The chapter closes with Nathan lying awake, trying unsuccessfully to devise a plan to make Anastasia not want to be with anyone else, admitting he comes up with absolutely nothing.
Key Events
- Summer approaches Nathan at the party, and he strategically uses the moment to spark Anastasia's jealousy without actually engaging with Summer romantically
- Anastasia immediately storms upstairs, and they engage in an intense, multi-position sexual encounter that highlights mutual desire and emotional connection
- Nathan verbally claims Anastasia as his during sex, while she maintains her bratty defiance, telling him "in your dreams"
- Nathan accidentally walks in on Henry and Daisy (Briar's younger sister) while stealing supplies, and Henry warns him not to leave Anastasia alone again
- Nathan washes Anastasia in the shower with careful, methodical attention despite her insistence she can do it herself
- Anastasia falls asleep on Nathan's chest while he lies awake, trying and failing to strategize how to keep her exclusively
Character Development
Nathan – This chapter is told entirely from Nathan's first-person perspective, offering the deepest insight yet into his emotional state. He admits openly that he could never hate Anastasia, contrasting sharply with the "rich-kid hockey star" persona she once assigned him. His calculated jealousy tactic with Summer demonstrates both his immaturity and his growing investment—he wants her full attention. His post-sex caregiving (showering her, dressing her, letting her sleep) reveals a nurturing side beneath the confident athlete exterior. The chapter's final admission—that he cannot devise a plan to keep her—shows vulnerability and uncertainty he rarely displays.
Anastasia – Though filtered through Nathan's narration, Anastasia's actions continue to reveal her complexity. She is sexually confident and vocal, yet the post-orgasm "docile, affectionate girl" Nathan describes quickly reverts to her "typical bratty attitude." Her willingness to fall asleep on him and accept his caretaking suggests a growing trust she would likely deny if asked directly.
Henry – In a brief but significant appearance, Henry is discovered with Daisy, Briar's younger sister. His flat, knowing comment about taking Anastasia if Nathan leaves her unattended underscores his quiet perceptiveness and adds a moment of levity to the chapter.
Summer – Appears only as a catalyst. Nathan's disinterest in her marks a definitive shift from his earlier reputation.
Themes, Symbols, or Motifs Actually Evidenced Here
- Jealousy as Connection – Nathan explicitly frames his provocation of Anastasia's jealousy as reciprocal, a "dose of her own medicine." Jealousy here is not destructive but functions as a form of emotional honesty and a catalyst for physical intimacy.
- Possessiveness and Belonging – Nathan's repeated declarations that Anastasia's body "is mine" and his internal attempt to "make her not want to do this with anyone else" reflect a possessive streak that blurs the line between desire and control. The chapter does not resolve whether this is romantic or problematic.
- Caretaking as Intimacy – The extended shower scene, where Nathan washes Anastasia's hair and body while she protests she can manage alone, positions domestic care as a deeper form of connection than sex. His rhetorical question—"Why would you do that when I'm here to do it for you?"—reframes intimacy as mutual reliance.
- The Mask and the Self – Nathan's internal monologue reveals a person far less assured than his external confidence suggests. His failure to strategize at the chapter's end—"I come up with absolutely nothing"—exposes the gap between his performative control and his actual helplessness regarding Anastasia.
Why This Chapter Matters
Chapter 18 serves as a turning point in Nathan's emotional arc. Previously, readers have seen his actions filtered through Anastasia's skeptical perspective. Now, inside his thoughts, the bravado cracks open. His admission that he could never hate her, his deliberate but ultimately failed attempt to manufacture a plan to secure her exclusivity, and his quiet reflection while she sleeps—all signal that this is no longer a casual arrangement for him.
The chapter also deepens the novel's exploration of intimacy beyond sex. The shower scene is arguably more revealing than the physical encounter that precedes it. When Nathan methodically works conditioner through her hair, he is performing a kind of devotion that contrasts sharply with his earlier possessive language. This duality—the man who claims her body and the man who washes her hair—is the central tension of his character, and this chapter refuses to resolve it.
3 Specific Study Questions and Answers
1. Why does Nathan choose to make Anastasia jealous with Summer, and what does this reveal about his understanding of their relationship?
Nathan admits he saw a chance to give Anastasia "a dose of her own medicine" after she previously called him out for jealousy. This suggests he views jealousy as a legitimate emotional currency in their dynamic—something they both wield. However, he makes no actual romantic overture toward Summer; he sends her away with tampons. This reveals that Nathan's tactic is performative rather than genuine, aimed at provoking a reaction that confirms Anastasia's investment in him.
2. How does the shower scene function as a contrast to the sexual encounter earlier in the chapter?
The sexual encounter is characterized by intensity, possessiveness, and Anastasia's vocal demands. The shower scene, by contrast, is methodical and quiet. Nathan ignores her protests that she can wash herself, insisting on caretaking her step by step. Where the earlier scene emphasizes physical sensation and power dynamics, the shower scene emphasizes tenderness and domestic intimacy. The shift suggests that Nathan's feelings extend beyond sexual desire into something more sustained and attentive.
3. What is the significance of Nathan's final admission that he "comes up with absolutely nothing"?
Nathan lies awake while Anastasia sleeps on his chest, actively trying to "devise a plan to make her not want to do this with anyone else." His failure to generate any strategy is significant because it undermines his characteristic confidence and control. Throughout the chapter, Nathan has been in charge—provoking her jealousy, directing their sexual encounter, caring for her afterward. This final sentence reveals that his control is limited. He cannot engineer emotional exclusivity, and for arguably the first time, he acknowledges his helplessness.