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Chapter 40: Permission to Mourn

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Summary

Scarlett lies face-down in her room after fleeing the Avery pool. Maryam announces Lucas’s arrival, calling him “a male underwear model.” Lukas corners Scarlett, ignoring her deflection about a pity fuck and pressing her about what happened. She admits that her inward-dive block resurfaced, she cannot open her MCAT email, her high school coach’s wife appeared, and she misses her dog. When Lukas asks about the block, she resists, but he gently extracts the story: the night before the NCAA final, her abusive father contacted her despite a court order, and her boyfriend Josh broke up with her. Overwhelmed, she failed the dive for the first time and sustained her serious injury. Lukas reframes that day not as a personal failure but as an avalanche of external blows. He then shares his own story—his mother died while he was at a swim meet at fourteen, and he turned winning into a compulsion, which later caused a block that cost him the Olympic trials. Only after stepping back, mourning, and rediscovering his intrinsic desire to swim did he heal. Lukas holds Scarlett as she sobs, telling her to let herself be sad. She finally cries herself to sleep in his arms, acknowledging the sorrow she had never permitted herself.

Key Events

  • Maryam announces “a male underwear model” at the door; it is Lukas.
  • Lukas refuses to be deflected by Scarlett’s offer of sex and demands to know why she left the pool.
  • Scarlett reluctantly admits her inward-dive block and the cascade of stressors: the MCAT email, the coach’s wife, missing her dog.
  • She reveals the sequence of the NCAA final day: her father’s prohibited call, Josh’s breakup, the anxiety-filled warm-up, her first failed dive, and the injury.
  • Lukas reinterprets the events, challenging her self-narrative that she became a failure.
  • Scarlett breaks down, sobbing, and Lukas cradles her on his lap.
  • Lukas tells his own painful story about losing his mother, developing a performance block, and learning to step back and grieve.
  • He urges Scarlett to allow herself to be sad and assures her she will be okay no matter what happens with diving.
  • Scarlett cries until she falls asleep in Lukas’s arms.

Character Development

Scarlett finally crumbles under the weight of a year of suppressed grief. For the first time, she voices the full chain of events that shattered her confidence, instead of hiding behind anger or self-loathing. Her admission to Lukas—and her unstoppable tears—signals the beginning of true emotional processing. She moves from deflecting with humor and sex to accepting comfort, showing that she may be ready to stop punishing herself.

Lukas demonstrates a profound capacity for empathy and emotional honesty. He is not offended by Scarlett’s brusque rejections and instead patiently uncovers the truth. By revealing his own traumatic past and his journey through a performance block, he proves that his bond with Scarlett is built on mutual vulnerability. His steady physical presence and his simple permission to grieve (“I’m sorry, Scarlett”) give her something no one else has: the right to feel sorrow.

Themes and Motifs

Permission to Mourn
The chapter’s central motif is the act of being sorry—Scarlett admits she never allowed herself that emotion. Lukas’s quiet “I’m sorry, Scarlett” gives her the gift of acknowledging the true damage of that day, a concept she had refused for a year.

Reframing Failure
Lukas systematically dismantles Scarlett’s self-blame. He re-lists the events: abusive-father contact, boyfriend’s betrayal, sleepless night, and then a single failed dive that ended in a catastrophic injury. His retelling frames the outcome as a series of terrible circumstances, not a character flaw.

Emotional Vulnerability as Strength
Both characters expose their deepest wounds. Lukas’s confession about his mother’s death and his own block mirrors Scarlett’s story, showing that emotional honesty is not weakness but the path to healing.

Performance Pressure and Identity
Scarlett’s question, “What would I even be, without diving?” echoes Lukas’s earlier belief that swimming had to be everything to justify his absence at his mother’s death. The chapter argues that self-worth cannot depend on athletic success.

Why This Chapter Matters

This is the emotional fulcrum of Scarlett’s arc. For the entire novel she has treated her block as a frustrating obstacle; here she finally confronts the trauma that created it. Lukas’s parallel story of loss and recovery reframes the block not as a fatal flaw but as a natural, surmountable response to grief. Their intimacy deepens beyond the physical as he becomes the first person to truly see her pain. By letting herself cry and fall asleep in his arms, Scarlett takes the essential first step toward healing—the very step she had been denying herself. The chapter also solidifies Lukas’s role as not just a romantic interest but a genuine partner who can meet her emotional needs.

Study Questions and Answers

  1. What chain of events does Lukas assemble to refute Scarlett’s belief that she is a failure, and why is his reframing so powerful?
    Lukas lists the contact from her abusive father the night before the NCAA finals, the breakup with Josh that same morning, the subsequent sleepless anxiety, and only then the failed dive and injury. He treats these as external betrayals and misfortunes that converged on a single day, arguing that they do not define her as a failure. The reframing is powerful because it is starkly factual—Scarlett has blamed herself while ignoring the outrageous pressure she was under—and because it comes from someone who understands athletic trauma firsthand.

  2. How did Lukas eventually overcome his swimming block after his mother’s death, and what lesson does he offer Scarlett by sharing this story?
    Lukas explains that the need to win became a compulsion to justify having been away at a competition when his mother died. This pressure caused him to gain seconds on every race and fail the Olympic trials. With Pen’s encouragement, he stepped back from swimming entirely, traveled, mourned his mother, and allowed himself to grieve. Only when he could swim for himself—not out of obligation—did his performance return. The lesson for Scarlett is that she must first let herself be sad, acknowledge the depth of the harm she suffered, and separate her identity from diving.

  3. Why does Lukas’s simple statement “I’m sorry, Scarlett” have such a destabilizing effect on her?
    Scarlett has spent the past year telling herself—and hearing from others—that she should be grateful to be physically healthy, that she just needs to push through. No one, least of all herself, has granted her permission to mourn the loss of the capable diver she was or the brutality of the day that broke her. Lukas’s unsolicited, gentle “I’m sorry” gives her the one thing she desperately needed: validation that what happened was truly awful and that sorrow is a reasonable, human response.